Sing the tune…

23 06 2009

Holding On To Hope Against All Odds

Marguerite Theophil

We live in amazing times. In several parts of the world, while personal and collective acts of aggression and violence increase, in many parts, citizens resist being treated like mindless, malleable puppets. There’s a lessening of apathy and indifference, an increase of positive engagement. And in all of this, we sense how crucial it is to have hope.

What is hope? A standard definition of hope is “to feel that something desired may happen”. ‘Feel’ and ‘may’ are words that denote uncertainty. How then could these words inspire confidence that what we desperately would like to have is within reach?

I much prefer the poet Emily Dickinson’s “Hope is the thing with feathers / That perches in the soul,/ And sings the tune – without the words,/ And never stops at all.”

Some years before he became president of Czechoslovakia, Vaclav Havel offered a radically sharp perspective: “Hope is a state of mind… not essentially dependent on some particular observation of the world or estimate of the situation… An orientation of the spirit, an orientation of the heart, it transcends the world immediately experienced, and is anchored somewhere beyond its horizons. …Hope is not the conviction that something will turn out well, but the certainty that something makes sense, regardless of how it turns out.’’
Hope might not hold the promise of security, but paradoxically, it enhances our capacity to live, work and ultimately transform ourselves within an insecure, unstable environment.
There are other radical redefiners: Rudolf Bahro, the German socio-ecologist and untiring activist, expands the idea of hoping to a state of being comfortable with insecurity: ‘‘When the forms of an old culture are dying, the new culture is created by a few people who are not afraid to be insecure.’’
A teacher’s task is not only to engage students’ imagination but also to convince them that they are people of worth who can do something in a very difficult world. We need to believe that the world can be different from what it is now. And if we don’t believe the world can be different from what it is now, “we might as well quit.”
Some are afraid to hope because they are even more afraid of being disappointed. So, if you have no hope, you may perhaps protect yourself from being disappointed, but the cost of not hoping is that you act half-heartedly or avoid acting; it works almost like a selffulfilling prophecy, inviting or shaping negative outcomes. The point of having hope in life is to always hold on to the possibility of a better life, a better world, and that gives you the energy to actively make that happen. When you have hope, you tap into and release the energy that helps you shape positive outcomes in nearly every situation.
So while hope does not guarantee desired outcomes, an attitude of hope can certainly shape most outcomes. Asked if he was an optimist or a pessimist, Havel is said to have responded: “… I’m really not an optimist because i don’t believe everything’s going to turn out well, and i’m really not a pessimist because i don’t believe everything’s going to turn out horribly, but i do cultivate hope in my heart, because it’s the only antidote to cynicism, fear, apathy, and malaise.”
Hoping and wishing, often mistakenly equated, are different approaches. Wishing allows me to not act; hoping insists i do.
The writer is a Mumbai-based organisational consultant, personal growth coach and workshop leader. E-mail: weave@vsnl.net

Source : TOI





The Book of Tea

18 06 2009

The Book of Tea by Kakuzo Okakura is an interesting read which discusses about the history of Tea, of the simplicity and innate beauty of tea ceremonies, of Japanese life, of Zen and Taoism.

It is, however, a long one (21 Pages)

If you are game, here is the link to The Book of Tea www.tug.org/texshowcase/partofTheBookofTea.pdf

If not, here are extracts , which i find very endearing (and thats a lot to read as well)

• Those who cannot feel the littleness of great things in themselves are apt to overlook the greatness of little things in others. The average Westerner, in his sleek complacency, will see in the tea ceremony but another instance of the thousand and one oddities which constitute the quaintness and childishness of the East to him.

• Like all good things of the world, the propaganda of Tea met with opposition. Heretics like Henry Saville (1678) denounced drinking it as a filthy custom. Jonas Hanway (Essay on Tea, 1756) said that men seemed to lose their stature and comeliness, women their beauty through the use of tea.

• Colonial America resigned herself to oppression until human endurance gave way before the heavy duties laid on Tea. American independence dates from the throwing of tea-chests into Boston harbour.

• It has not the arrogance of wine, the self- consciousness of coffee, nor the simpering innocence of cocoa.

• The Taoists relate that at the great beginning of the No-Beginning, Spirit and Matter met in mortal combat. At last the Yellow Emperor, the Sun of Heaven, triumphed over Shuhyung, the demon of darkness and earth. The Titan, in his death agony, struck his head against the solar vault and shivered the blue dome of jade into fragments. The stars lost their nests, the moon wandered aimlessly among the wild chasms of the night. In despair the Yellow Emperor sought far and wide for the repairer of the Heavens. He had not to search in vain. Out of the Eastern sea rose a queen, the divine Niuka, horn-crowned and dragon-tailed, resplendent in her armor of fire. She welded the five-coloured rainbow in her magic cauldron and rebuilt the Chinese sky. But it is told that Niuka forgot to fill two tiny crevices in the blue firmament. Thus began the dualism of love–two souls rolling through space and never at rest until they join together to complete the universe. Everyone has to build anew his sky of hope and peace.

• Meanwhile, let us have a sip of tea. The afternoon glow is brightening the bamboos, the fountains are bubbling with delight, the soughing of the pines is heard in our kettle. Let us dream of evanescence, and linger in the beautiful foolishness of things.

• There is no single recipe for making the perfect tea, as there are no rules for producing a Titian or a Sesson. Each preparation of the leaves has its individuality, its special affinity with water and heat, its own method of telling a story. The truly beautiful must always be in it.

• Confucius said that “man hideth not.” Perhaps we reveal ourselves too much in small things because we have so little of the great to conceal.

• Then emperors used to bestow some rare preparation of the leaves on their high ministers as a reward for eminent services. Yet the method of drinking tea at this stage was primitive in the extreme. The leaves were steamed, crushed in a mortar, made into a cake, and boiled together with rice, ginger, salt, orange peel, spices, milk, and sometimes with onions!

• Luwuh describes the method of making tea. He eliminates all ingredients except salt. He dwells also on the much-discussed question of the choice of water and the degree of boiling it. According to him, the mountain spring is the best, the river water and the spring water come next in the order of excellence. There are three stages of boiling: the first boil is when the little bubbles like the eye of fishes swim on the surface; the second boil is when the bubbles are like crystal beads rolling in a fountain; the third boil is when the billows surge wildly in the kettle

• It was of such a beverage that Lotung, a Tang poet, wrote: “The first cup moistens my lips and throat, the second cup breaks my loneliness, the third cup searches my barren entrail but to find therein some five thousand volumes of odd ideographs. The fourth cup raises a slight perspiration,–all the wrong of life passes away through my pores. At the fifth cup I am purified; the sixth cup calls me to the realms of the immortals. The seventh cup–ah, but I could take no more! I only feel the breath of cool wind that rises in my sleeves. Where is Horaisan? Let me ride on this sweet breeze and waft away thither.”

• The Taoist conception that immortality lay in the eternal change permeated all their modes of thought. It was the process, not the deed, which was interesting.

• The beverage grew to be an excuse for the worship of purity and refinement, a sacred function at which the host and guest joined to produce for that occasion the utmost beatitude of the mundane. The tea-room was an oasis in the dreary waste of existence where weary travellers could meet to drink from the common spring of art appreciation. The ceremony was an improvised drama whose plot was woven about the tea, the flowers, and the paintings. Not a colour to disturb the tone of the room, not a sound to mar the rhythm of things, not a gesture to obtrude on the harmony, not a word to break the unity of the surroundings, all movements to be performed simply and naturally–such were the aims of the tea- ceremony.

• And strangely enough it was often successful. A subtle philosophy lay behind it all. Teaism was Taoism in disguise.
• The Tao is in the Passage rather than the Path. It is the spirit of Cosmic Change,–the eternal growth which returns upon itself to produce new forms. It recoils upon itself like the dragon, the beloved symbol of the Taoists. It folds and unfolds as do the clouds. The Tao might be spoken of as the Great Transition. Subjectively it is the Mood of the Universe. Its Absolute is the Relative.

• We have said that the Taoist Absolute was the Relative. In ethics the Taoist railed at the laws and the moral codes of society, for to them right and wrong were but relative terms. Definition is always limitation–the “fixed” and “unchangeless” are but terms expressive of a stoppage of growth.

• Education, in order to keep up the mighty delusion, encourages a species of ignorance. People are not taught to be really virtuous, but to behave properly. We are wicked because we are frightfully self-conscious. We nurse a conscience because we are afraid to tell the truth to others; we take refuge in pride because we are afraid to tell the truth to ourselves. How can one be serious with the world when the world itself is so ridiculous!

• Hide yourself under a bushel quickly, for if your real usefulness were known to the world you would soon be knocked down to the highest bidder by the public auctioneer. Why do men and women like to advertise themselves so much? Is it not but an instinct derived from the days of slavery?

• The virility of the idea lies not less in its power of breaking through contemporary thought than in its capacity for dominating subsequent movements.

• Chinese historians have always spoken of Taoism as the “art of being in the world,” for it deals with the present–ourselves. It is in us that God meets with Nature, and yesterday parts from to-morrow. The Present is the moving Infinity, the legitimate sphere of the Relative. Relativity seeks Adjustment; Adjustment is Art. The art of life lies in a constant readjustment to our surroundings. Taoism accepts the mundane as it is and, unlike the Confucians or the Buddhists, tries to find beauty in our world of woe and worry.

• The Sung allegory of the Three Vinegar Tasters explains admirably the trend of the three doctrines. Sakyamuni, Confucius, and Laotse once stood before a jar of vinegar–the emblem of life–and each dipped in his finger to taste the brew. The matter-of-fact Confucius found it sour, the Buddha called it bitter, and Laotse pronounced it sweet.

• The Taoists claimed that the comedy of life could be made more interesting if everyone would preserve the unities. To keep the proportion of things and give place to others without losing one’s own position was the secret of success in the mundane drama.

• We must know the whole play in order to properly act our parts; the conception of totality must never be lost in that of the individual. This Laotse illustrates by his favourite metaphor of the Vacuum. He claimed that only in vacuum lay the truly essential. The reality of a room, for instance, was to be found in the vacant space enclosed by the roof and the walls, not in the roof and walls themselves. The usefulness of a water pitcher dwelt in the emptiness where water might be put, not in the form of the pitcher or the material of which it was made. Vacuum is all potent because all containing. In vacuum alone motion becomes possible. One who could make of himself a vacuum into which others might freely enter would become master of all situations. The whole can always dominate the part.

• In leaving something unsaid the beholder is given a chance to complete the idea and thus a great masterpiece irresistably rivets your attention until you seem to become actually a part of it. A vacuum is there for you to enter and fill up the full measure of your aesthetic emotion.

• He who had made himself master of the art of living was the Real man of the Taoist. At birth he enters the realm of dreams only to awaken to reality at death. He tempers his own brightness in order to merge himself into the obscurity of others.

• Hiakujo was walking in the forest with a disciple when a hare scurried off at their approach. “Why does the hare fly from you?” asked Hiakujo. “Because he is afraid of me,” was the answer. “No,” said the master, “it is because you have murderous instinct.”

• The followers of Zen aimed at direct communion with the inner nature of things, regarding their outward accessories only as impediments to a clear perception of Truth. It was this love of the Abstract that led the Zen to prefer black and white sketches to the elaborately coloured paintings of the classic Buddhist

• We find Tankawosho breaking up a wooden statue of Buddha on a wintry day to make a fire. “What sacrilege!” said the horror-stricken bystander. “I wish to get the Shali out of the ashes,” camply rejoined the Zen. “But you certainly will not get Shali from this image!” was the angry retort, to which Tanka replied, “If I do not, this is certainly not a Buddha and I am committing no sacrilege.” Then he turned to warm himself over the kindling fire.

• A special contribution of Zen to Easthern thought was its recognition of the mundane as of equal importance with the spiritual. It held that in the great relation of things there was no distinction of small and great, an atom possessing equal possibilites with the universe. The seeker for perfection must discover in his own life the reflection of the inner light.

• The organisation of the Zen monastery was very significant of this point of view. To every member, except the abbot, was assigned some special work in the caretaking of the monastery, and curiously enough, to the novices was committed the lighter duties, while to the most respected and advanced monks were given the more irksome and menial tasks. Such services formed a part of the Zen discipline and every least action must be done absolutely perfectly. Thus many a weighty discussion ensued while weeding the garden, paring a turnip, or serving tea. The whole ideal of Teaism is a result of this Zen conception of greatness in the smallest incidents of life.

• It is an Abode of Vacancy inasmuch as it is devoid of ornamentation except for what may be placed in it to satisfy some aesthetic need of the moment. It is an Abode of the Unsymmetrical inasmuch as it is consecrated to the worship of the Imperfect, purposely leaving some thing unfinished for the play of the imagination to complete.

• A good tea-room is more costly than an ordinary mansion, for the selection of its materials, as well as its workmanship, requires immense care and precision. Indeed, the carpenters employed by the tea-masters form a distinct and highly honoured class among artisans, their work being no less delicate than that of the makers of lacquer cabinets.

• A Zen monastery differs from those of other Buddhist sects inasmuch as it is meant only to be a dwelling place for the monks. Its chapel is not a place of worship or pilgrimage, but a college room where the students congregate for discussion and the practice of meditation.

• However faded the tea-room and the tea-equipage may seem, everything is absolutely clean. Not a particle of dust will be found in the darkest corner, for if any exists the host is not a tea-master. One of the first requisites of a tea-master is the knowledge of how to sweep, clean, and wash, for there is an art in cleaning and dusting. A piece of antique metal work must not be attacked with the unscrupulous zeal of the Dutch housewife. Dripping water from a flower vase need not be wiped away, for it may be suggestive of dew and coolness.

• In the tea-room fugitiveness is suggested in the thatched roof, frailty in the slender pillars, lightness in the bamboo support, apparent carelessness in the use of commonplace materials. The eternal is to be found only in the spirit which, embodied in these simple surroundings, beautifies them with the subtle light of its refinement.

• It is not that we should ignore the claims of posterity, but that we should seek to enjoy the present more. It is not that we should disregard the creations of the past, but that we should try to assimilate them into our consciousness. Slavish conformity to traditions and formulas fetters the expression of individuality in architecture
• One cannot listen to different pieces of music at the same time, a real comprehension of the beautiful being possible only through concentration upon some central motive.

• The Taoist and Zen conception of perfection, however, was different. The dynamic nature of their philosophy laid more stress upon the process through which perfection was sought than upon perfection itself. True beauty could be discovered only by one who mentally completed the incomplete.

• The simplicity of the tea-room and its freedom from vulgarity make it truly a sanctuary from the vexations of the outer world. There and there alone one can consecrate himself to undisturbed adoration of the beautiful.

• Chikamatsu, our Japanese Shakespeare, has laid down as one of the first principles of dramatic composition the importance of taking the audience into the confidence of the author. Several of his pupils submitted plays for his approval, but only one of the pieces appealed to him. It was a play somewhat resembling the Comedy of Errors, in which twin brethren suffer through mistaken identity. “This,” said Chikamatsu, “has the proper spirit of the drama, for it takes the audience into consideration. The public is permitted to know more than the actors. It knows where the mistake lies, and pities the poor figures on the board who innocently rush to their fate.”

• Our very individuality establishes in one sense a limit to our understanding; and our aesthetic personality seeks its own affinities in the creations of the past. It is true that with cultivation our sense of art appreciation broadens, and we become able to enjoy many hitherto unrecognised expressions of beauty.

• Enshiu was complimented by his disciples on the admirable taste he had displayed in the choice of his collection. Said they, “Each piece is such that no one could help admiring. It shows that you had better taste than had Rikiu, for his collection could only be appreciated by one beholder in a thousand.” Sorrowfully Enshiu replied: “This only proves how commonplace I am. The great Rikiu dared to love only those objects which personally appealed to him, whereas I unconsciously cater to the taste of the majority. Verily, Rikiu was one in a thousand among tea-masters.”

• The old masters are rightly to be honoured for opening the path to future enlightenment. The mere fact that they have passed unscathed through centuries of criticism and come down to us still covered with glory commands our respect. But we should be foolish indeed if we valued their achievement simply on the score of age. Yet we allow our historical sympathy to override our aesthetic discrimination.

• We classify too much and enjoy too little.
• The primeval man in offering the first garland to his maiden thereby transcended the brute. He became human in thus rising above the crude necessities of nature. He entered the realm of art when he perceived the subtle use of the useless.

• Scratch the sheepskin and the wolf within us will soon show his teeth.

• We boast that we have conquered Matter and forget that it is Matter that has enslaved us.

• Much may be said in favor of him who cultivates plants. The man of the pot is far more humane than he of the scissors. We watch with delight his concern about water and sunshine, his feuds with parasites, his horror of frosts, his anxiety when the buds come slowly, his rapture when the leaves attain their lustre. In the East the art of floriculture is a very ancient one, and the loves of a poet and his favorite plant have often been recorded in story and song.

• Yet even in the case of pot flowers we are inclined to suspect the selfishness of man. Why take the plants from their homes and ask them to bloom mid strange surroundings?

• When a tea-master has arranged a flower to his satisfaction he will place it on the tokonoma, the place of honour in a Japanese room. Nothing else will be placed near it which might interfere with its effect, not even a painting, unless there be some special aesthetic reason for the combination. It rests there like an enthroned prince, and the guests or disciples on entering the room will salute it with a profound bow before making their addresses to the host.

• Manifold indeed have been the contributions of the tea-masters to art. They completely revolutionised the classical architecture and interior decorations, and established the new style which we have described in the chapter of the tea-room, a style to whose influence even the palaces and monasteries built after the sixteenth century have all been subject.

• Those of us who know not the secret of properly regulating our own existence on this tumultuous sea of foolish troubles which we call life are constantly in a state of misery while vainly trying to appear happy and contented. We stagger in the attempt to keep our moral equilibrium, and see forerunners of the tempest in every cloud that floats on the horizon. Yet there is joy and beauty in the roll of billows as they sweep outward toward eternity. Why not enter into their spirit, or, like Liehtse, ride upon the hurricane itself?





Through you…

15 06 2009

God Rests In Reason
Jason Mraz

You were born together
and together ye shall be forever
until death could scatter
shouldn’t matter in the memory of god above
let the wind of heaven dance between you too
allowing tiem and space to bring you closer to everlasting love
so what should you do if god moves through you

when love beckons
its ways are often hard and steep
and his wings unfold
ye yield to all that it speaks
though a sword it might be hidden there among the pinions
oh you may wear a wound that truly spoke to you
believe in all that voice and follow through
so what should you do when god moves through you

love possesses nothing
nor would it ever be possessed
love is love sufficient unto love
and you can figure out the rest

god rests in reason
so what should you do, oh oh
when god moves through you

well your children will not be your children
maybe the daughter, the son of a beginning
they’ll come through your womb but not be coming from you
they will be with you, but they do not belong to you
you can give them your love but not your thoughts
cause they’ll arrive with their own hearts
they’re the coming of angels this blessed season
and then they’ll sing oh yea god rests in reason
god rests in reason
so what should you do
when god moves through you

and think not you can direct the course of
love itself directs the course of love
believe not god is in your heart, child
but rather you’re in the heart of god

so you see so far i’m all right
pleasant and awkwardly polite
watching carefully the comedy
the tick tock moments of the grid lock day
and why i’m singing
about the fact that i’m giving up everything
and giving back to the people that made me want to change
my evil, lazy ways
i’m gonna give you one more phrase to explain

see i believe in only one thing
i believe in good orderly d-i-r-e-c-t-i-o-n
i’ll spell it again, roll it with abbreviation
easy as a 1,2,3
spell it backwards it’s a d-o-g
cause it’s a dog eat dog world
what a life girl, maybe you should make you my wife girl
and i believe in omni possibility
it’s nothing more than good orderly direction
nothing more than good orderly direction
nothing more than good orderly direction
this is nothing more than good orderly direction
so what should you do when god moves through you
what should you do when god moves
through you





Re Learn

8 06 2009




We..

7 06 2009

“We are not human beings having a spirtual experience. We are spiritual beings with a human experience.”
Teilhard De Chardin





Dil maange more…

7 06 2009

You. Me. Today’s mystics?

The ascetic need no longer shun the world, but could find the true path even on the way home from the office, says Mohini Kent

In the 21st century, when religion has lost its meaning for many and science wants to map the mind of God, mysticism sounds a tad irrelevant. We dismiss miracles as mere myths and measure the quality of life with material possessions — homes, cars, private planes. In such an age, what possible role can there be for a seer? Our materialistic society seems to have marginalized the message of the mystic.

But then the world markets crashed and the “greed is good” ethos of bankers and hedge fund managers created a tidal backlash that submerged the global financial edifice. Money lost value, banks could no longer be trusted and there was little security anywhere. How does one survive such stress? Is it time to return to the mystics, for they can put our lives into perspective and hold up a mirror to the future?

None has done so more dramatically than Aurobindo, a thoroughly modern seer. A brilliant student, he won a scholarship to Cambridge and got top marks in the Classical Tripos exams. A polyglot, he mastered Latin, Greek, Italian, French and Spanish, as well as Sanskrit, Marathi, Bengali and Hindustani. After his return to India, he joined the freedom struggle but in 1910, he settled permanently in Pondicherry and began an intense spiritual exploration. The fruit of his spiritual labours is a blinding vision of the future of man.

His ideas put our lives into perspective. Nature has toiled for millions of years to create man but the story doesn’t end there. There will be another evolutionary leap. From man’s life today, will come a more universalized one – lived not in this body but in a body of light. A body without organs and without the base instincts of hunger and lust.

The mind of man may have reached its evolutionary end and we are now poised for the development of a higher mind and the higher supra-mental consciousness. Aurobindo undertook the onerous task of establishing a link between us and a loftier consciousness. We are privy to his extraordinary inner journey because he wrote about it in his epic Savitri. He made it possible for us to walk on the new road he built. A few of us may already be on our way.

How can you or I play a part in the next evolution? Modern life is busy but the modern mystic’s vision does not exclude the world. There’s no call to shun the world for asceticism, to shrink away making and spending money. We can go about our daily business, hold down jobs, earn, cope with the chaos of life and still prepare the future of the human race. We can do this by incorporating physical, mental and spiritual practices into our daily routine. All life is yoga, Aurobindo wrote.

The transformation has to be an integral one – of mind, soul and body. The body is to play a major role in the total perfection of man. There must be greater emphasis on physical exercise and a physical culture that will help us arrive at the ideal proportions of limbs. Physical harmony and balance is the first indispensable condition. One way is visualization, to see yourself in perfect health.

Mental culture is the other side of the coin. This includes transforming emotions that weaken us – fear, unhappiness, suspicion, envy, anger – into those that make us strong – courage, moral generosity and equanimity. Aurobindo does not call upon us to meditate for hours. Just half-an-hour a day will do, so long as it is set aside for meditation and self-observation. It is useful to fix a time to meditate and stick to it. Meditation must be dynamic and purposeful. It’s not easy at first because thoughts tug at us like fractious children as soon as we shut our eyes. Soon, we find that most of them are second-hand thoughts, garnered from TV, magazines and other people. Slowly and with practice, the inner chatter dies down.

Evolution is an adventure of consciousness. Consciousness is not something to be discovered outside – it is within us and just needs to be nurtured. Normally, we are so busy with our outer lives that we have little time for ourselves, but we need to take a step back and examine ourselves. Yoga is the science and art of becoming conscious.

First, we must evaluate our true worth and neither over-estimate nor underestimate ourselves. We cannot miss the truth of our being. We also need to recognize the worth of others and have moral generosity.

Individuals evolve constantly. What was considered ‘right’ many years ago, no longer holds. Aurobindo refers to seven sorts of ignorance and seven sorts of knowledge. In the ordinary consciousness, we meet life through desires. Desires cloud our judgement and obscure the soul. We need to differentiate between needs and desires. Instead of trying to eliminate desire, we can try to change its nature.

Today, man is a “mental being enslaved to life and matter, (and) to be the slave of the mind is to be slave of the false, the limited and the apparent. The whole world yearns after freedom, yet each creature is in love with his chains. This is the paradox and inextricable knot of our nature”.

We have to grow into the next evolution of superman, into a more divine life. Each one of us can hasten the process of evolution by consciously cooperating to bring it about. This is our chance to collaborate in our own destiny. It can only happen if all of us realize that we can be modern-day mystics.

Source : 07 June 2009, Times of India