I have been pondering about this for a while now.. and then i find a boy i know asking it on FB
The boy asks : “sometimes people are NOTHING u make thm SOMETHING & when they bcome somthng they feel that U R NOTHING” … wy is it so
My dear witch of portebello replied : simple.. then they were desperate to become what they admire in you.. when they do get there.. the importance you had in their lives loses. Ego takes over and they tend to forget what they were before they met you. Humility is a virtue which has to be worked on consciously and it is the hardest. Ego is the biggest sin to let go. Get it? 🙂
I get the reason why they are doing what they do..
but what i dont get is , in any case that person doesnt seem to be working on humility.. so do i ignore and let be.. or do i speak my mind and in the process, judge and criticise that person..