Should we stop loving because it is an emotion? No. One can really love only when the love becomes more conscious and less emotional.
He suggests the first thing to do is to take love out of this crowd of overwhelming emotions. Love is not overwhelming. On the contrary, love is a tremendous insight, clarity, sensitivity and awareness. But that kind of love rarely exists, because very few people ever reach to their being. We have to take love out from the emotional grip where it has been since our birth, and we have to find a route to our being. Unless our love becomes part of our being, it is not much different from pain, suffering, and sadness.